Why Authenticity is Key in Online Dating for Men
Description
A Simpler Guide to Single Men
Top 10 Signs He Is Cheating On You
Check Out Girls Without Getting Caught
10 Steps to Get Over Your Ex
How To: Forget Your Dating Check List
A Female Player's Strategy: The Preemptive Strike
It's Okay To Be Needy
Why Klutzy Women Are Attractive
How Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life
Men Play Dating Games Too
Say, “Okay”, pull out your IPOD, Droid, etc. and take her picture!
on June 1, 2010 at 3:42 pmSidewinder
There’s a pathology of paranoia that is starting to develop in these posts. The gist of the advice can basically be summarized as “do not acknowledge any real connection with her at any time. Do not communicate with her honestly. Do not ever give her the security of knowing that you are there for her.”
I have to say it is a pussy approach to relationships. It is operating under the constant fear that once she knows the real you, and feels that you are there for her, she will look to leave you for someone else. So to avoid this, (the pathology goes), you keep her in a perpetual state of uncertainty and she will always be pursuing security from you like a horse chasing a carrot on a stick.
You will never share your life with another person if you are always living in fear, always one step removed from your own life, tactically trying to control things that are inherently uncontrollable. You have to live your life in the first person, not the 3rd person. If you want to maintain a LTR, you have to share yourself, learn to tolerate some risk, and buy into something that you won’t be able to always control.
[ed: reread the post. i said "first few weeks" of dating the girl. if you've been with a girl for a few months, then yeah, you can go ahead and approach the relationship with more sentimental romantic candor. but she's gotta earn that first, which means you have to be getting the sense that the shit tests and beta baits are diminishing in frequency. if the chick loves you, this positive change will start to happen around month three.]
on June 1, 2010 at 3:45 pmxsplat
Q”Take a picture, it’ll last longer”
A”What?”
Q”Take a picture, it’ll last longer”
A”What?”
Q”Take a picture, it’ll last longer”
A”WHAT?”
Repeat until she figures out you are yanking her stupid chain. Then non sequitur as if the stupid conversation never happened.
on June 1, 2010 at 3:46 pmPA
That’s not to say that being helpful to yuor wife is beta. It’s just odd that, perhaps unfairly to Al Gore, this is the one Tipper quote about Al in the article.
Top 10 Signs He Is Cheating On You
Check Out Girls Without Getting Caught
10 Steps to Get Over Your Ex
How To: Forget Your Dating Check List
A Female Player's Strategy: The Preemptive Strike
It's Okay To Be Needy
Why Klutzy Women Are Attractive
How Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life
Men Play Dating Games Too
Say, “Okay”, pull out your IPOD, Droid, etc. and take her picture!
on June 1, 2010 at 3:42 pmSidewinder
There’s a pathology of paranoia that is starting to develop in these posts. The gist of the advice can basically be summarized as “do not acknowledge any real connection with her at any time. Do not communicate with her honestly. Do not ever give her the security of knowing that you are there for her.”
I have to say it is a pussy approach to relationships. It is operating under the constant fear that once she knows the real you, and feels that you are there for her, she will look to leave you for someone else. So to avoid this, (the pathology goes), you keep her in a perpetual state of uncertainty and she will always be pursuing security from you like a horse chasing a carrot on a stick.
You will never share your life with another person if you are always living in fear, always one step removed from your own life, tactically trying to control things that are inherently uncontrollable. You have to live your life in the first person, not the 3rd person. If you want to maintain a LTR, you have to share yourself, learn to tolerate some risk, and buy into something that you won’t be able to always control.
[ed: reread the post. i said "first few weeks" of dating the girl. if you've been with a girl for a few months, then yeah, you can go ahead and approach the relationship with more sentimental romantic candor. but she's gotta earn that first, which means you have to be getting the sense that the shit tests and beta baits are diminishing in frequency. if the chick loves you, this positive change will start to happen around month three.]
on June 1, 2010 at 3:45 pmxsplat
Q”Take a picture, it’ll last longer”
A”What?”
Q”Take a picture, it’ll last longer”
A”What?”
Q”Take a picture, it’ll last longer”
A”WHAT?”
Repeat until she figures out you are yanking her stupid chain. Then non sequitur as if the stupid conversation never happened.
on June 1, 2010 at 3:46 pmPA
That’s not to say that being helpful to yuor wife is beta. It’s just odd that, perhaps unfairly to Al Gore, this is the one Tipper quote about Al in the article.
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