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The gist of the advice can basically be summarized as \u201cdo not acknowledge any real connection with her at any time. Do not communicate with her honestly. Do not ever give her the security of knowing that you are there for her.\u201d\n\nI have to say it is a pussy approach to relationships. It is operating under the constant fear that once she knows the real you, and feels that you are there for her, she will look to leave you for someone else. So to avoid this, (the pathology goes), you keep her in a perpetual state of uncertainty and she will always be pursuing security from you like a horse chasing a carrot on a stick.\n\nYou will never share your life with another person if you are always living in fear, always one step removed from your own life, tactically trying to control things that are inherently uncontrollable. You have to live your life in the first person, not the 3rd person. 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